What I am up to

Goodbye 2015!

It’s been a while since I’ve done the whole blogging thing. I could make the expected excuses of all work and no play, but that feels unnecessary. Instead, let’s go with thank you. Thank you for continuing to follow this blog. Thank you for the continued support on this site as well as Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Tumblr, and wherever else we have been able to come together. Most importantly, thank you for being you. I value each and every one of my readers, and I know that I couldn’t be who I am as a writer without you all being who you are.

Here are some of the writer-ly (or whatever) things I’ve been up to in 2015:

  • I finished my first year and a half of graduate school! This means I’m now officially halfway through my MFA program. That is both an exciting thought as well as a terrifying one. I’m not sure where I’ll be after getting this degree, but I know that I will be a stronger writer for it.
  • I started teaching English 101 (and am now prepping to teach ENGH 101 and 201 in the spring). Teaching college students has been an interesting (and usually rewarding) experience. I realize that a lot of students really value the feedback they get and take their inquiries outside of the classroom. Now I can laugh at all of the times that I used to say I never wanted to be a teacher. Well, maybe it’s more of a quick chuckle.
  • I started working on my thesis project. It’s a book I’ve tried starting two other times but ended up setting aside again. In many ways, it’s different than what I’ve written before but, in a lot of ways, it is familiar to my writing. This third start really has been the charm. I feel like I have a better understanding of my characters (who are now a lot more interesting than they were before!) and that my relatively complicated story line is becoming clearer. I’m very excited to continue working on this piece and cannot wait to let you all know when my first draft is done! (This will be quite a while. Don’t hold your breath.)
  • There has been a lot of tutoring this year. It’s been rewarding to help younger students reach their full potential in English (reading, writing, grammar, etc.). Then there’s the math tutoring that I thought I left in the past but it has actually been a lot of fun to revisit the topics I thought I left behind. It’s all so much easier now. (Having answer keys might be part of the equation there…)
  • I also spent some quality time teaching creative writing workshops as part of the Sally Merton Fellowship program. It’s fun to see how excited the kids get about getting to do something creative (and just having a new face in the classroom). Also, I value the collection of drawings and thank you cards that these kids have given me. I could probably do with a little less hair-braiding, but even I can’t really complain about that.
  • Fall for the Book 2015 was also a major success (in spite of the impending hurricane that thankfully dissipated so that we could continue the festival as planned). During the festival, I had a chance to talk to Tim O’Brien and get my book signed. Steve Watkins (a former UMW professor whose class I was sooooo close to taking) was there as well and it was nice to get a chance to chat with him. (He gets a double thanks for giving me a signed copy of his book as well!)
  • In addition to all of that, I drank obscene amounts of coffee, met new people, went new places, and lived to write about it all. Stay tuned this 2016 for more writing and reflecting on A Dose of Kyle.

 

Enough about me. What have you accomplished this year? Did you get lots of writing done? Read any good books? Travel to several cool places? Leave a comment below!

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Quotes, prompts, inspiration, and more to help writers get back to writing. As always, let me know what you think! Did you try one of these writing prompts? Let me know! I love to see what other writers are up to. <3 Kyle

Quotes

“Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing.” -Benjamin Franklin

“Writing is an exploration. You start from nothing and learn as you go.” –E.L. Doctorow

I pretty much drink a cup of coffee, write in my journal for a while, and then sit at a computer in my office and torture the keys. My one saving grace as a writer is that, if I’m having trouble with the novel I’m writing, I write something else, a poem or a short story. I try to avoid writer’s block by always writing something.” —Jess Walter

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Prompts

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It was a breakfast in bed kind of morning, except that she couldn’t eat the breakfast.

Flying was easier than he thought it would be.

There were so many things he wanted to tell his young self, but he was certain that their future would change drastically if those words came out of his mouth. Seeing how the world was going to turn out already, maybe a change was just what everyone needed.

Because of ____________, I will never be the same.

Being back at his old school was the worst thing that could happen at this point.

breakfast in bed prompt

Inspiration

Have some trouble with grammar or just want to do a quick check of your piece? Try out grammarly!

Need a laugh? Check out this comic

Striving to learn more about copywriting? Check out these 10 steps.

There were so many things he wanted to

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Creative Nonfiction, Creative Writing, horses

Creative Nonfiction: The First Fall

The first fall is an inevitable milestone for any serious rider. It’s something you try not to think about but you always know it is going to happen. It has to happen.

My first fall was off of a flea bitten gray horse named Cotton. Well, technically he was a pony since he fell just under 14.2 hands, but he was taller than me which made him a horse in my book. Now cute “little” Cotton had a secret habit: He would hold in all the air he could when people put his saddle on so it wouldn’t be as tight on his stomach.

Clever not-quite-a-horse-horse.

I didn’t notice Cotton’s scheme until it was too late to do anything about it.

We had made it through the pleasant group trail ride and had managed to make it back to the outdoor ring where we were supposed to cool down before calling it a day. Cotton and I were happily trotting to the far end of the ring to claim our space on the track without a care in the world.

But we never made it.

Read the rest on my horse blog, Beyond the Saddle and share the story of your first fall below!
Prompts, Writer Wednesday, Writing Quotes, Writing Tips

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Quotes, prompts, inspiration, and more to help writers get back to writing. As always, let me know what you think! Did you try one of these writing prompts? Let me know! I love to see what other writers are up to. <3 Kyle

writing tips and prompts

Quotes

“Poetry is just the evidence of life. If your life is burning well, poetry is just the ash.” – Leonard Cohen

“Make it dark, make it grim, make it tough, but then, for the love of God, tell a joke.” -Joss Whedon

“Each writer is born with a repertory company in his head.” -Gore Vidal

As to the adjective, when in doubt, strike it out.” -Mark Twain, Pudd’nhead Wilson, 1894

The cookie that was missing from thePrompts

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The child who had to become an adult.

The game that went terribly, terribly wrong.

The family feud you wanted no part in.

The back story your readers will never know.

The cookie that was missing from the cookie jar.

The smile you miss or the frown you don’t.

The day that never ended.

The lesson you didn’t bother to learn.

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More

Is back story sabotaging your novel? Find out here

“Language” by Stephen Fry (video)

Looking for a new site to try? Check out 750 words

Have you tried writing in the snow? Here is some inspiration for some snow writing

50 things to know about self-publishing a book on Amazon

 

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Articles about relationships, Dating/Relationships

Dating: What Not to Compromise on in Relationships

Relationships involve two different personalities finding away to come together. This involves compromise, and a fair amount of it! However, there are times you shouldn’t compromise –like when it comes to your identity. Making such compromises can make you feel uncomfortable, depressed, and taken advantage of. You should never feel like you need to compromise who you are to make a relationship work. If your partner does not love all aspects of you, then they are the wrong person for you. Here are some things that you should not be compromising on: When you should NOT compromise

Your self-respect

Do not stay with someone who talks down to you, tells you what to do, or points out your every “flaw.” You are a human being, same as them, and you deserve respect. They are not “better than you,” “out of your league,” or even irreplaceable. The person you are with should appreciate and respect you. If they cannot offer you that, they do not deserve what you have to offer.

 

Your friends.

Friends come and go naturally. This is a sad reality of life. What is even sadder (and unhealthy) is dating someone who tries to tell you who you can or cannot be friends with. Your partner does not have to like all your friends but they should accept that you do like these people. Your friends have supported you, hung out with you, picked you up when you were down, and were all around there for you. Your partner should be adding to that support system, not breaking it. If your partner is isolating you from your friends, you are not in a healthy relationship. Do not compromise on this.

 

Read the rest of this post on Heyy App’s blog!

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Quotes, prompts, inspiration, and more to help writers get back to writing. As always, let me know what you think! Did you try one of these writing prompts? Let me know! I love to see what other writers are up to. <3 Kyle

_The mark of a really great writer is

Quotes

“When we read, we start at the beginning and continue until we reach the end. When we write, we start in the middle and fight our way out.” -Vickie Karp

“The mark of a really great writer is that he gives expression to what the masses of mankind think or feel without knowing it. The mediocre writer simply writes what everyone would have said.” -G. C. Lichtenberg

“The heart makes the eloquence.” -Edward Dahlberg

“The secret of getting ahead is getting started.” -Agatha Christie

snow fallPrompts

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She dove for the post-Valentine’s Day chocolates. What a bargain! What a steal! Who cared what everyone thought of her as she loaded the last of the sales table onto the conveyer belt…she needed them.

If I could write you a song to make you fall in love, it would go something like this:

Outside the snow is falling and you are snowed in with…wait, what is that?

Frosty the Snowman finds a Snowlady

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reading and writing quote Vickie Karp

More

10 themes shared by Historical Fiction and Science Fiction

Propp’s Structure of the Magic Tale

4 faults beginners make in writing (with clever names, descriptions, and examples for them all)

Words that sound dirty, but aren’t (there are 144 words on this list but it’s worth a humorous skim)

love song prompt

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Dating/Relationships

Valentine’s Day Cards: Free Printables

Unique and cute cards that are sure to warm the heart of your Valentine this year. Show them how much you care this Valentine’s Day (or any other time you want to express some love). Happy Valentine’s Day! <3 Kyle

1. You make my world a better place

love quote

2. My love for you is loading

in love with you

3. I mustache u to be my valentine

mustache

4. Time flies when you’re having fun

watches

5. Queen of hearts

royalty

6. Hey I just met you

call me maybe

7. We’re always a good idea

you and I have always been a good idea

8. Make-you-a-mix-CD crush

romantic mix tape

9. You make my heart skip a beat

you make my heart skip a beat

10. The Perfect Valentine’s Day

our perfect valentine's day is loading

Get more free Valentine’s Day cards here and even more can be found here.

Don’t forget to share your love this Valentine’s Day!

Dating/Relationships

13 Free Printable Valentine’s Day Cards

Still looking for that perfect Valentine’s Day card? Got a long distance love that could use some, well, love? Did you forget about Valentine’s day (oops!)? Just want to say something sweet to someone this year with the safety and ease of technology? Check out these FREE PRINTABLE Valentine’s Day cards!

1. Did my heart love ’til now?

did my heart love til now_

2. Wishing you the happiest Valentine’s DayWITH ALL MY LOVE

3. Flowers, Rings, and other things

flowers and rings

4. Be mine or go away

be mine or go away

5. You make me whole

you make me whole

6. All my love belongs to you

all my love belongs to you

7. I’m yours and you are mine

sweethearts

8. Cliché love poem

cliche love

9. xoxo

to the one who has all of my love

10. There is no love as true as ours

There is no love as true as ours

11. Friends are the best valentines

friends are the best valentines

12. Forever Love

love forever

13. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Valentine's Day

Still haven’t found the perfect card? Check out this post that has 11 more FREE Valentine’s Day cards!

More Valentine’s Day ideas on my Pinterest board if you haven’t already checked that out.

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Writer Wednesday 41: Valentine’s Day

Quotes, prompts, inspiration, and more to help writers get back to writing. This week’s theme: Valentine’s Day! Show your writing some love this week (and, you know, all the time).  As always, let me know what you think!  <3 Kyle

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Quotes

“Writing is the hardest work in the world. I have been a brick-layer and a truck driver, and I tell you –as if you haven’t been told a million times already –that writing is harder. Lonelier. And nobler and more enriching.” -Harlan Ellison

“The work never matches the dream of perfection the artist has to start with.” -William Faulkner

“There is no agony like having an untold story inside you.” -Zora Neale Hurston

“If the doctor told me I had six minutes to live, I’d type a little faster.” -Isaac Asimov

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 first date prompt

Prompts

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Your secret crush walks up to you and gives you a box of Sweethearts. Upon opening the box, you realize all the hearts are blank…except one. It says RUN.

Write the message you’d want to receive in a card from your Valentine.

The sign on the door said WATCH OUT FOR CUPID’S ARROW, but she didn’t expect this.

The bouquet held a dozen beautiful red roses that blackened and fell as soon as they touched her hands.

It was a Valentine’s Day proposal neither of them would ever forget.

Everyone told you not to go on a first date on Valentine’s Day. Now you know why.

Valentine's Day prompts

More

How to write love scenes that work for your readers

In defense of YA romance (and what we can appreciate from it)

12 romance books for people who hate romance novels

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…more, more, more!

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Dating/Relationships

10 Free Valentine’s Day Cards

There are many ways to wish someone a Happy Valentine’s Day, especially when it comes to someone you truly love. Sometimes, though, an elaborate Valentine’s Day just isn’t in the budget. Other times, you just need one more thing to really show your special someone just how much you care. These 10 FREE Valentine’s Day cards are here to help you express your love in a way everyone can appreciate.

Stay tuned this week for more love (and freebies)! Happy Valentine’s Day! <3 Kyle

1.

Sending all my love to you

sending all my love to you

2.

For your loved one who is sweeter than candy:

You are sweeter than candy.

3.

A little love math: you + me

you and I make the sweetest valentines

4.

From, your coffee lover

buy me coffee and I am yours

5.

Will you be my valentine? Pretty please?

Will you be my valentine_

6.

Cupid really does know best

you and I are proof that cupid really does know best

7.

Our hearts belong together

our hearts belong together

8.

More love math: you + me = we

you and me

9.

Long distance relationship love

near or far you always have my whole heart

10.

Be plain and true because I love you

love poem

Bonus!

Simply romantic:

you make my heart melt